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Rest Is Training Too: Teaching Your Dog

To Do Nothing

Introduction

When most people bring a new puppy home, their focus is clear.

They think about: Sit, Stay, Recall, Loose lead walking, (All the “training” things).

What almost nobody thinks about is this: Can your dog do nothing? Just… switch off and relax.


And yet, this is one of the most important — and most overlooked — skills a dog can learn.


The Missing Piece in Most Dog Training

Modern dog ownership is often unintentionally overstimulating.


From the moment a puppy arrives, they are:

  • Constantly interacted with
  • Constantly spoken to
  • Constantly played with
  • Constantly walked or “exercised”


On the surface, this feels like you’re doing everything right.

But in reality, many dogs never learn how to just be still.


They don’t learn:

  • How to settle in the house
  • How to relax when nothing is happening
  • How to regulate their own emotions


Instead, they become dependent on stimulation. And this is where problems start to creep in. We teach all of the puppies on our Puppy Programme how to switch off and do nothing early on.

Dog settling calmly on bed during training at home in Burton upon Trent

Why “Doing Nothing” Is Actually a Skill

Dogs are not born knowing how to switch off in a human environment.

Left to their own devices, many puppies will:

  • Follow you everywhere
  • Demand attention
  • Stay alert constantly
  • Struggle to relax

That’s not bad behaviour — it’s just lack of guidance.

Doing nothing is a learned behaviour.


The Link Between Overstimulation and Behaviour Problems

This is where things become more serious.

A dog that cannot switch off often becomes:

  • Overexcited
  • Easily frustrated
  • Reactive to small triggers
  • Unable to focus during training


What many owners don’t realise is that this often isn’t a “training issue” — it’s an arousal issue.

Put simply: An overtired, overstimulated dog cannot behave calmly.


It’s the starting point for a lot of common problems:

  • Pulling on the lead
  • Jumping up
  • Barking excessively
  • Not listening outdoors
  • Struggling around other dogs


You can teach all the commands you like, but if the dog’s baseline state is too high, it won’t stick. Check out our Training Programme.


How Much Rest Does a Dog Actually Need?

  • Puppies: often need 18–20 hours of sleep per day
  • Adult dogs: typically need around 16–18 hours per day


Yes — really.


That doesn’t mean deep sleep the entire time, but it does mean:

  • Resting
  • Relaxing
  • Switching off


If your dog is constantly “on,” constantly moving, constantly looking for something to do…

They’re probably not getting enough rest.

And if that’s the case, you’re very likely dealing with an overtired dog— even if it doesn’t look like it.

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Rest Is Where Learning Actually Happens

Training doesn’t just happen during sessions.

It happens afterwards.


When your dog rests:

  • Their brain processes what they’ve learned
  • Experiences are consolidated
  • Emotional responses settle


Without enough rest, learning doesn’t stick properly.

So if you’re doing lots of training but not seeing progress, it’s worth asking:


Is my dog actually getting enough downtime to process it?


How to Teach Your Dog to Do Nothing

This isn’t about commands.

It’s about creating situations where your dog learns:

“Nothing is happening right now — and that’s okay.”


There are two simple, effective ways to start.

Dog relaxed and asleep outdoors showing calm behaviour and emotional regulation

1. Place Training (The Bed Skill)

One of the most practical ways to teach calm behaviour is through place training.

This means teaching your dog:

  • To go to their bed
  • To stay there
  • To relax there while life happens around them

For example:

  • While you’re cooking
  • While you’re eating
  • When guests are over
  • During quiet evenings

How to approach it:

  • Start in a calm environment
  • Guide your dog onto their bed
  • Keep things low energy
  • Don’t overtalk or overpraise


At first, they may:

  • Get up repeatedly
  • Whine or fidget
  • Look for interaction

That’s normal.


Stay consistent, stay calm, and avoid turning it into a big event.

Over time, the bed becomes:

  • A clear boundary
  • A safe, calm space
  • A default “off switch”


2. Teaching Settle (Doing Nothing on Lead)

This is one of the simplest and most effective exercises you can do.

It’s also where most owners struggle — because it requires patience.


The setup:

  • Sit on the sofa (or chair)
  • Have your dog on lead next to you
  • Do nothing (No talking, No eye contact, No interaction)

Just sit.


What will happen:

At first, your dog will likely:

  • Move around
  • Try to engage you
  • Pull on the lead
  • Get frustrated

That’s part of the process.


Your job is simple: Wait.


Eventually, your dog will:

  • Sit
  • Then lie down
  • Then (ideally) fall asleep


That moment is the learning.

Not because you told them to — but because they figured it out.

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Did You Know?

Most adult dogs need around 16–18 hours of rest per day — but many get far less, leading to overexcitement, poor focus, and unwanted behaviours.

Progressing This Skill

Once your dog can settle in the house, you can start to build it into real life.

Move the same exercise to:

  • The garden
  • A quiet park bench
  • Outside a café
  • New environments gradually


The goal is to teach:

“No matter where we are — when nothing is happening, we relax.”

This is where the real benefits start to show.


This Isn’t Just for Puppies

A lot of people assume this only applies to young dogs.


It doesn’t.

If you have an older dog who:

  • Is always “on”
  • Struggles to settle
  • Gets overexcited easily


You can still teach this.


The process is the same:

  • Slow things down
  • Remove constant stimulation
  • Build calm behaviour gradually


It may take a bit longer, but it absolutely works.


Final Thoughts

Rest isn’t a break from training.

Rest is training.


Teaching your dog to do nothing might feel counterintuitive.

But in reality, it’s one of the most valuable things you can give them.

And once it’s in place, you’ll notice the difference everywhere —
at home, on walks, and in everyday life. 

Written by Jack & Chloe Fairclough

Founders of Lola's House

Published on 31st March 2026

We use AI to help refine our thoughts and structure our content, but every blog post is based on our experience and knowledge.

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